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Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Long Distance Marriage - MUST read!

(breakfast at Tiffanys..opps..nope..Ri-Yaz Heritage...mish dis moment!)


Salam everyone...

here...

A MUST read to all long distance married couple:)

Marriage is a complicated relationship. Being apart physically makes a marriage even more challenging.

Time Required: Varies

Here's How:

1.The key, as it is in all relationships, is communication. Keep the lines of communication open on a daily basis.

2.Being committed to one another and truly believing that your spouse belives in the marriage commitment is vital.

3.A long distance marriage will fail if there is a lack of trust between the partners.

4.Although you are apart from one another, make time for one another. You can do this by sending a letter, an email, writing in a journal, day dreaming about your spouse, or having an icq or chat conversation.

5.Share your expectations about being apart from one another. Also share your expectations when you are close to being together again.

6.Be honest about your concerns and fears about your separation.

7.Try to daily dialogue with each other.

8.Keep a daily journal.

9.Give one another a scented pillow case or shirt to help keep your presence with them.

10.Plan a trip or some fun activity (other than sex) to do when the two of you are back together.

11.Use online communication to send emails, electronic cards, pictures, music, poems, and stories.

12.Use icq or other instant messaging services.

13.Camcorders can be great for being able to see one another or your children.

14.Play online games together.

15.Surprise each other once in a while with a phone call. Send care packages to each other now and then.

Tips:

1.Don't assume that infidelity will occur because of your physical separation. Most long distance marriages do not have to deal with this heartache because of the love and commitment the spouses feel for one another.

2.Since you can't read one another's non-verbal communication, use symbols or words or happy faces to describe your thoughts better.

3.When you are back together, don't rush into getting things done around the house right away. Allow the returning spouse to have some time to adjust to being back home.

What You Need:

•Commitment

•Communication

•Sense of Humor

•Trust
 

Friday, June 25, 2010

DIY Wedding Veil

Salam...
Sehat? i xsehat..
sbb?
hubbyku jauh nun di lumut...
(I mIsH u !~)

Today i nak hupdate sdikit about my DIY Veil...
 tatau la u ol rase chantek ke tak..
tp i rase boleh tahan la, memikirkan i DIY dengan pengalaman menjahit yang suam2 kuku..
hehehe...

I beli 1.5m (kalau xsilap la..) soft net dkat Jakel... cukup utk wat veil panjang sampai ke kasut idaman i..:)
kain net ni lembut je..(xkesah la mahal sket..u nak wat tawen kann..huhu)
alkesahnye, sebelum ke Jakel, i survey kat Kamdar, 
ade je yg 'masuk' warne die, tp disebabkan sales person die layan i mcm i xde duet, make i chowchinchow, pegi beli kat Jakel..(Jakel layan tiptop, i loike!:D)
  
and then, i beli maniks2 pink-purple...
i jahet kat sepanjang2 tepi veil i.. 
(berhari-hari menjahit..huhu)
then i patch my perca lace,  
(naseb baik cukup huhu),
design die jd mcmni...
(juge after berbulan2 mencari design yg i loike:D)


full view...

di hari kejadian...:D

okey...selamat mencube...:D 
(haruslah byk2 bersabar if nak DIY yer...jgn sekerat jalan ajoo...:D)

See u in next entry...take care!!~

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Perihal MendesiGn Hantaran

Salam all..
Dah basi ke? yeap...dah 3 minggu lbey...
(sy rase lom basi ah...sentiase mood huneymun hehehhee)

Today i nak bercerita perihal hantaran punye design...
again, i 'DIY'...
dinasihatkan kepade B2B supaye stick kpade satu idea,n warne yer... 
sbab kalau tak, nnt jd mcm i, asek je nak tukar2 design hahaha... 
duet beli itu ini (sbab beli byk round n 2-3 warne), ongkosnye dah jd mcm same je if tempah kat butik..kekeke...pape pun i loike n puas ati dgn hasil kreativiti senirik:D
(mcm kreatif je kan..sape lg nak puji kalau bukan diri senirik, hahaha:D)

fasa pertame konon2 nak buat hantaran berbunge DIP putih-pink...
sile lihat hasilnye...
kire okeyla jugak...hahaha:D

fasa kedue...kegedikan nak try wat dip warne kuning-gold pulak...

fasa ketiga..finally i beli barang2 lain, 
design sumthing len...
tema pink2 garden bersame rerame plak..hehe...:D

my final hantaran mmg 'masuk' habes la ngan warne bebunge pelaminan..i loike!
okeyla..til d next entry...daaa!~

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

dooR gifT...

Entry ke-2 utk hari ini...
hahahahaa...
rajin gile la waaa:P
mahu lihat door gift sy yg tak seberape?
rajin gile buat-50-50..
(50% i buat, 50% member sambung tolong buat sbab tak cukup maseee:D..thanks FARIHA...)
plain craft  bag i bought from http://ilikecard.blogspot.com/

sebelum diletak reribbon...:)

selepas diribbonkan...

lagi selepas diribbonkan...

perasan tak warne len2? suke ati i la kan..i themekan die pink-purple..so sume shades of pink n purple kalau bleh i nak letak...hahaahaa:D
kat dlm die i letak chocs & marsmallow..yum2...

oke...till next entry, mwax!

Kotak2 kurMa ku...

Salam All..
Today i nak share about kotak2 kurma i utk my wedding aritu...

i bought a plain white kotak from 
dgn harge yang very2 affordable...
The next step is..i wrap it with pink satin & organza punye ribbon...

1 is like dis...

another 1 is like dis...

bile dah masukkan kurma, susun2kan die, jd mcm ni...

lom siap lg tuw..slepas disusun, add some fresh flowers & petals...jadikla seperti pikcah dibwh...(xberape clear...nt i dpt photo dr OP i upload okeh...)

sooo.....harap dpt bagi idea kepade mane2 bride-to-be dengan my DIY...
tatataaaaa!~

Monday, June 14, 2010

nak start dr mane?

Salam...
apecer semua?
mesti byk pg wedding invitation minggu2 cuti skolah ni kan...:p
ade tu satu hari 4-5 jemputan kan...marathon ke kenduri hikhiks...

anyway i nak hupdate ttg my wed..yg mane2 leh share la kan2...
nak start dr mane ek?

akad nikah...
hermm....my akd nikah was held after Isyak... 
lbeh kurang dlm kol 9 mlm gitu..
alhamdulillah dgn skali lafaz,i m his wife:)
so happy...

the persalinan is mine, i hantar tailor jahit kurung modern ajo...
n then i DIY jahit maniks and paste bling2 :P


aksesoris2 mak andam butik yg buatkan my pelamin, kak ogie..
 about pelamin nnt i post in d next entry yer..

 mekap nikah...my fren's touch...in just 1/2 jam hehehe...
thanks & credit to her yg jd bidan terjun plaks coz akak mekap i, 
bus die dr KL terlewatannnn.....waaa...
(pikcah dr cam phone..agak blur..)

flower bouquet...my fren tolong belikan dr floristika and gubahkan...
i loike sgt2...!

k la..gotta go...sleepy mode....zzzZZZzzzZZZzzzzz....
(i love sume yg tolong2 i for my wedding..mwax!)

Thursday, June 10, 2010

bereS sudaaa...:D

Salam all..
harini dah masuk opis..eh, silap..semalam dah start keje smule..
setelah bercuti tawen yg hepi but a bit penat..:)
everything went well, very2 well...dari persiapan, akad nikah, kenduri-kendara, honeymun..(hehehe...)
thanks to everyone....hubby, ma & abah, mfil, sedare mare, siblings, cousins and fwens...
u guys make my day wonderfull n beautiful!mwax2!
(mode terharu...huhuhu)

pikcah2 dr my photoG lom dapat..adepon pikcah cilok2 dari FB...
n dr cam hset yg tak sberape..tp i loike!:D
 
Akad di Pahang @ 28.05.2010

Outdoor di Pahang @ 29.05.2010

Kenduri di Perak @ 05.06.2010

kenape sume bnw ni?saje suke2..nnt i upload lagiks yer...
ape2 pon thanks again kepade smue org kuat yg menjayekan majlis kami...:)
daaa~